backup sites: fix listing when status call errors

* fix backend to not retry in status call
* fix frontend to continue loading view if status errors
* fix connect-lastmile to show the exact path that is timing out

package.json

@@ -15,7 +15,7 @@
     "@aws-sdk/client-route-53": "^3.901.0",
     "@aws-sdk/client-s3": "^3.901.0",
     "@aws-sdk/lib-storage": "^3.901.0",
-    "@cloudron/connect-lastmile": "^2.2.1",
+    "@cloudron/connect-lastmile": "^2.3.0",
     "@cloudron/manifest-format": "^5.28.0",
     "@cloudron/superagent": "^1.0.0",
     "@google-cloud/dns": "^5.3.0",